Okay.....Help me get my hair on the right track now.?

I had extensions in the side because of a bad chopped up short cut due to bad chemical damage from a straightener (chemical straightener). I got the extensions out yesterday, and the sides are a tad longer but seem so thin and soft and fuzzy. My curl is growing back in and my newly found stylist who is the only one I will trust now said that there is still about an inch to and inch and a half of that old fuzzy straightener damage. I guess maybe I'm at that in between stage. (at least I hope that's all it is) I'm scared to death that all of this plus my stress from it is making my hair thin out BAD. I have always had to wash and dry daily due to the soft fine thin texture of my hair, so I got up this a.m. and washed with a volumizing shamnpoo and just a tad of conditioner as conditioner tends to weigh down my few strands, and after sleeping on my hair at night, it gets even softer and oilier but looks dry and fuzzy in places. It has such a long way to go and I'm scared that at

Okay.....Help me get my hair on the right track now.?

Hi girly-girl...sometimes the best thing to do is to just cut it off and start all over again. I didn't have a bad relaxer experience but I did make a decision to stop relaxing and so after after transitioning for about 6 months, I cut all of the relaxed ends off. That was two years ago. I still don't relax my hair, but when stretched, my curly hair is past my shoulders. To help my hair grow faster, I take biotin daily. It's great stuff.My hair is EXTREMELY thick and healthy. If you need some support in your hair decisions, take a look at sites like nappturality.com or motowngirl.com. You can also view lots of hair journals at fotki.com. Here's a link to my fotki account: http://public.fotki.com/btrfli1172/. Take a look at my about me section and there are links to other ladies who have either voluntarily or involuntarily done the BC (big chop). I think it may help you!